xxxDlg.h文件中:
CListCtrl m_lstSorting;

afx_msg void OnMenuDelete();      //手动
// Generated message map functions
//{{AFX_MSG(CAlarmStoreSimulatorDlg)
...
afx_msg void OnRclickLisSorting(NMHDR* pNMHDR, LRESULT* pResult);
//}}AFX_MSG
DECLARE_MESSAGE_MAP()


xxxDlg.cpp中:

 BEGIN_MESSAGE_MAP(CAlarmStoreSimulatorDlg, CDialog)
  //{{AFX_MSG_MAP(CAlarmStoreSimulatorDlg)
  ...
  ON_NOTIFY(NM_RCLICK, IDC_LIS_SORTING, OnRclickLisSorting)
  ON_COMMAND_RANGE(ID_MENUITEM_DELETE, ID_MENUITEM_DELETE, OnMenuDelete)
  //}}AFX_MSG_MAP
  END_MESSAGE_MAP()

 void CAlarmStoreSimulatorDlg::OnRclickLisSorting(NMHDR* pNMHDR, LRESULT* pResult)
 {
  // TODO: Add your control notification handler code here
  NM_LISTVIEW* pNMListView = (NM_LISTVIEW*)pNMHDR;
  if(pNMListView->iItem != -1)
  {
   DWORD dwPos = GetMessagePos();
   CPoint point( LOWORD(dwPos), HIWORD(dwPos) );
   
   CMenu menu;
   VERIFY( menu.LoadMenu( IDR_MENU_POPUP ) );      //IDR_MENU_POPUP是新建菜单ID
   CMenu* popup = menu.GetSubMenu(0);
   ASSERT( popup != NULL );
   popup->TrackPopupMenu(TPM_LEFTALIGN | TPM_RIGHTBUTTON, point.x, point.y, this );
  }
  *pResult = 0;
 }
 
 void CAlarmStoreSimulatorDlg::OnMenuDelete()
 {
  int iItemSel = m_lstSorting.GetNextItem(-1, LVIS_SELECTED);  
  if(iItemSel != -1)  
  {  
   m_lstSorting.DeleteItem(iItemSel);   //delete selected item in the list control
  }  
 }

备注:
学会了用这个消息映射ON_COMMAND_RANGE(ID_MENUITEM_DELETE, ID_MENUITEM_DELETE, OnMenuDelete)去响应弹出菜单的事件响应,ID_MENUITEM_DELETE是菜单button的ID,好像还可以是一个ID区域, OnMenuDelete是消息响应函数.