C++/OPP/OOD系列:
层级一：语法/语意(C++)
[Lippman2000] Essential C++ [推荐]
Essential C++,by Stanley B. Lippman Addison Wesley Longman 2000,276 pages
Essential C++ 中文版 ，侯俊杰 译，282页
[Gregory95] C++:The Core Language
C++:The Core Language by Gregory Satir 1995 O'Reilly
C++语言核心，张铭泽 译 ，236页
[Deitel98] The Complete C++ Training Course
The Complete C++ Training Course 2/e by Harvey M.Deitel 1998 Prentice Hall
C++大学教程(第二版)，邱仲潘等 译，816页
[Stevens2000] Standard C++ Bible
Standard C++ Bible 2000 Al Stevens IDG
标准C++宝典，林丽闽等 译，766页
[Eckel2000] Thinking in C++ [第二版翻译不大好，建议看原版]
Thinking in C++ 2/e Bruce Eckel 2000 1470 pages Prentice Hall
C++ 编程思想，刘宗田等 译，420页
[Lippman98] C++Primer [有点C++基础再看，强烈推荐！]
C++ Primer,3rd Editoin,by Stanley Lippman and Josee Lajoie
Addison Wesley Longman,1998 1237 pages
C++ Primer 中文版，侯俊杰 译，1999，1237页
[Struostrup2000] [专家级，需要一定水平]
The C++ Programming Language,Special Editoin,by Bjarne Stroustrup
Addison Wesley Longman,2000,1017 pages
C++程序语言经典本，裘宗燕 译，机械工业出版社 1999
[ANSI C++] C++规格书 1998.9.1 PDF格式
ANSI C++ 1996 Draft
层级二：专家经验(C++/OOP)
[Meyers96] More Effective C++ [不错]
More Effective C++,by Scott Meyers,Addison Wesley,1996,318pages
More Effective C++中文版，侯俊杰，培生 2000. 318页
[Meyers98] Effective C++ [推荐]
Effective C++，Second Edition,by Scott Meyers,Addison Wesley Longman,1998.256pages
Effective C++ 2/e 中文版,侯俊杰,培生 2000.256页
[Sutter99] Exceptional C++ [不错]
Exceptional C++，by Herb Sutter,Addison Wesley Longman,2000.208pages
Exceptional C++中文版，侯俊杰,培生 2000.248页
[Sutter2001]More Exceptional C++
More Exceptional C++ by Herb Sutter,Addison Wesley Longman,2001.
层级三：底层机制(C++ Object Model)
[Ellis90] The Annotated C++ Reference Manual
The Annotated C++ Reference Manual,by Margaret A.Ellis and Bjarne Stroustrup
Addison Wesley Longman,1990,447 pages.
[Lippman96] Inside the C++ Object Model [good]
Inside the C++ Object Model,by Stanley Lippman,Addison Wesley Longman,1996,280pages
深度探索C++物件模型，侯俊杰 译
层级四：设计观念的复用(C++/Patterns)
[Gamma95] Design Patterns：Elements of Reusable Object Oriented Software, [强烈推荐]
by Erich Gamma,Richard Helm,Ralph Johnson,and John Vlissides,Addison Wesley,1995.395pages
设计模式,李英军等译,机械工业出版社,2000.254页
[Alex2001]Modern C++ Design: Generic Programming and Design Patterns Applied [比较深奥]
by Andrei Alexandrescu,Addison-Wesley,2001,352Paper
Genericity/STL系列:
第一个境界是使用STL:
[Josuttis99]:The C++ Standard Library －A Tutorial and Reference,by Nicolai M.Josuttis,
Addison Wesley 1999.799pages
中文版，侯捷译 [听说还可以]
第二个境界是了解泛型技术的内涵与STL的学理:
[Austern98]:Generic Programming and the STL -Using and Extending the C++ Standard
Template library,by Matthew H.Austern,Addison Wesley 1998.548page
第三个境界是扩充STL:
[Stepanov2001]:C++ Standard Template Library by P.J.Plauger,Alexander A.Stepanov,
Meng Lee,David R.Musser,Prentice Hall 2001
这些就是你应该看的书，如果你想成为高手。
当然，因为很多书的内容会有所重叠，所以不是每本都必看的。在每个层次里看1~2本就差不多了，当然，有时间多看几本有利无弊